Truth Tuesday: The Silence — Everybody Sees It… So Why Does Nobody Speak Up?

Bullying isn’t always hidden. Sometimes it’s right in the open—and still ignored.

Let’s be honest for a minute.

Most bullying isn’t happening in secret.

It’s happening in hallways.
On buses.
In classrooms.
Online where everyone can see it.

And more often than not…

People know.

Other students see it.
Teachers catch glimpses of it.
Parents hear about it.

So the real question isn’t “Is it happening?”

It’s:

Why does it keep going?

Because silence is easier.

It’s easier to look the other way.
Easier to say “someone else will handle it.”
Easier not to get involved.

And let’s not pretend there’s no pressure behind that silence.

Kids don’t speak up because they don’t want to become the next target.

Parents hesitate because they don’t want their child labeled or singled out.

Even adults sometimes stay quiet to avoid conflict, backlash, or being seen as “overreacting.”

So what happens?

The behavior continues.

Not because nobody saw it…

But because nobody stopped it.

This isn’t about pointing fingers at one person or one group.

It’s about something bigger:

A culture where people see something wrong—and decide not to step in.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth:

Every time something is ignored, it sends a message.

Not just to the person doing it…

But to the one on the receiving end.

It tells them:

“You’re on your own.”

So now the question shifts.

Not “Who started it?”

But:

Who’s willing to stop it?

Because silence might avoid conflict…

But it doesn’t solve the problem.